--found in lines--

"Having been committed to love someone, means losing the opportunity of having others to love you..so be sure the person you're committed to, deserve your love and worthy of your sacrifice.."

i was stuck in my inbox and found this message..
It made me think for a while. True? MAybe. Yes. It's true.
It sucks when you're stuck with your commitment on one person and realize you're but a fool of your own emotions. Such that the most won't take the risk of trusting her/his own heart on someone she/he desires to be with for a certain moment.

It's not wrong to give much love and attention to someone.
It's not a crime to fall so crazy in love.
It's not forbidden to give everything you wanted to make someone feel important.... it's just that sometimes..even at the right time...
we have found the "mistaken" one.



Didz-W said...

there should be one more sentence that come after the last one...

...But you found the 'mistaken' one for a/some REASONs. :)

♫ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♫ ayu ♫ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♫ said...

very true..i like the quote above..i must take note of that :3

( / ・ω・)//!!!
(P.S. if you'll reply to this comment..pls. put it in my blog's comment box so that i can update my comments :D)

wytwitch said...

anak ng! bakit gusto mo pa na mahalin ka ng iba kung meron namang ngmamahal na syo? Kalandian lang yan...pero ano man ang maging dahilan kung bakit gusto mo na mahalin ka ng iba, e cguro nga ang minamahal mo ay hindi karapat-dapat sa pgmamahal mo at may mali sakanya. Hmm..naguguluhan tuloy ako..hehe pero basta tulad nga ng sinabi mo, "It's not forbidden to give everything you wanted to make someone feel important" cguro nga mali lang talaga ang minahal mo. Hehe sobrang tagalog ko ha...char! oh sha, napahaba pa tuloy...^_^

An Ordinary Gal said...

so true...yesterday i was also thinking about the same...It's better to live alone in comparison to live with someone who does not deserve you.
Being committed is not a compulsion. We can live happily while being single too and it is a different kind of pleasure in waiting for the one who truly deserves u. isn't it ? :)

beanizer_05 said...


@ didz:
wow! i was not expecting you'll say that..now you can relate to my posts huh?..you're right, finding the mistaken one for a reason..tnx..you made me think again:)

indeed, you must remember that..find the right one to love you lil girl:)

heheee..oo nga dumugo ilong ko sa pagbasa ng comment mo..with emo pa talaga ha..now im confused too..are you just commenting or scolding me??..hehee..there's nothing wrong with loving..it is just the person we choose to love sometimes that's all wrong:)

@special girl:
i like that line "different kind of pleasure in waiting for the one who deserves you"..
saving the best for the true right one you deserve and who deserves your love..it's better to be alone and happy than being with someone who knows nothing but hurting you..

Leona said...

Sad, right?

When you realize that deep down in you, no matter how happy you are with that one person, he/she's the wrong one.

beanizer_05 said...

@ leona:
it's tragic when you have all the love in your heart and you just realize you're loving the wrong one..

ambiguous_angel said...

it's just that sometimes..even at the right time...
we have found the "mistaken" one.

-yeah right.
did you found the wrong one?

beanizer_05 said...

@ ms. ambiguous:
yeah, i did..before.

But just like didz said, even finding that mistaken one has a reason..a learning.

tnx 4 dropping:)

g-r-a-n-e said...

yo bean!..
uhm.. as your post says.. u found the wrong one? the question is.. did you lose it? hehe or did you guys already break up? no offense please.. ><

uhm.. i quite dont agree with the quote above? because you know, even though you're committed.. being love by others are still ok.. unless..

hmm.. you dont love your partner anymore and feels a better love from another? which means you've fallen in love and fallen out of love..at the same time?

better not let your partner and you suffer.. cool off or break up is better than untrusted relationship.. ><

hope you understand.. sorry

beanizer_05 said...

hi g-r-a-n-e! i'm glad you dropped here..

part of my past,we're not together anymore..i lost it:)

there's nothing wrong being loved by another but it's more on the "UNLESS" part that defines it..though it seems fine to be loved by another (coz they say love is not expecting in return), the point of committing yourself on your partner is a must. That commitment entails loyalty and trust. At the same time, UNstopping another to love you while you're in a true relationship is like giving your partner the reason to doubt his own love and feel insecured. Insecurity kills..so, if you love your partner, would you give him a reason to kill himself?..
"Prevention is better than cure" rule is less deadly..hehee

I don't know what it takes to be a perfect partner, yet, there's one and simple thing that matters to me..RESPECT..
Finding the wrong one means UNfinding the respect you have on her and on yourself(often realized in the hurting end)..
The one who truly deserves your love is the one who will respect you 'til the end..

No need to feel sorry grane, I really appreciate your comments..thanks for sharing:)

Lost but never forgotten said...

i can honestly say dat is so true... great post luv it