~~lover or pretender?~~

She asked me once,
"Can I go to find my new happiness?"
I answered,
"Yes, you can."
She asked me again,
"How about you?"
I simply smiled and said,
"Go on, you're my happiness remember?"



Ouch!!! Oh! No worries..this is just another message on line..yeah, just another thought I choose to share.

Now, is this a sacrifice? stupidity? helplessness? loVE?..or a combination??
This is more of a love post. I should post this on my deaf site, but, I guess I should leave that comatosed site for while (hehee). I bet most readers would vote for "combination"(?)..or.. (?)

Is it really possible to swallow the pain and be happy for her at the same time? Hmmm..this may sound a usual love story any one can relate. Do we really need to say "I'm happy for you" when deep inside we're breaking? Often, hmmm..maybe. Why? 'Coz we wanted to show the world that we're not badly affected of such rejection or yet we don't want them to feel guilty of not feeling the same way. At times we need to fool ourselves so as to lessen the pain. But the pain won't be gone unless we face the fact that we are hurt and our hearts are seriously wounded.

It is not wrong to love someone who doesn't love you. Still, it is not fair to stuck ourselves with the blue feeling and pretend we are numb.

Falling in love doesn't guarantee being happy 'til the end. It is more of risking a fragile organ on other's sensitivity.

~~beanizer broken (?)

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~~unanswered~~

Just yesterday, I've read a beautiful piece written by one of the amazing bloggers I've chosen to follow. I'm just not sure if its a fiction or her own story. Anyway, it narrates a situation of this subject I used to get tired dealing with

--LOVE, BREAKING & LETTING GO.

In my other blog, I once mentioned --IS WAITING THE PROOF OF TRUE LOVE?,,now I opted to give another asking of "possible" proof of that same love every one has been enjoying to discuss..

>LETTING GO:
A SIGN OF COWARDICE?
A REASON OF ESCAPE?
or simply A PROOF OF TRUE LOVE??

Some say, if you truly love the person, you must fight for that love regardless of all the WHAT IFs. Some say, if you do love that person, you have to be on her/his side at all possible times. Some say, don't ever give a reason to leave her/him if you know the feeling is mutual. Some say, you must learn to set her/him free if you wanted her/him to be happy. Some say, never complicate her/him if you want to save the love. Some say, hold on and believe. Some even say, if you're meant to be, you will forever be.


Which is which? Which do you stand for?

if you try to ask me with this matter,,
My answer would be,,

it's not really the meaning of love that would perfectly define it..
it is the ONE you CHOOSE to love that would prove you perfectly felt it.

~~HOW ABOUT YOU??~~

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