masked pain

WHY DO WE FORGIVE THOSE WHO HURT US?
WHY DO WE HURT THOSE WHO LOVE US?
WHY DO WE TAKE THE CHANCES OF HURTING?

.. these 3 questions may be answered logically, emotionally or intellectually..
instant answers are playimg inside the head of the reader of this piece.why am i sayin' this?.'coz only the interested and those wanted to react on the above lines will spare their minutes readin this blog.
(thank u reader)..

going back to the topics..we will tackle each question and share our different views..

1st Q: WHY DO WE FORGIVE THOSE WHO HURT US?
Bnzer A: TO FEEL FREE. i am not an atheist. i believe in God and all His words--but i also believe, that as His instruments, we are given the intellect to do the right thing not just because the Bible tells us t forgive "Seventy times seven times"..i forgive those who hurt me not because i am a good Christian, but solely 'coz i wanted to breathe freely. Having a cold feeling with someone is like locking yourself in a closet. You limit every action, every move must not benefit that person. We, though in different situations, still feel the same way--UNPEACEFUL SOULS. i am a person with an overflowing pride (exage term). It often takes a long time before i get over the hatred inside me..and mostly, they ended up doin the first move--i am not impress with my attitude, but i cn't help it...part of my blackside maybe..i do believe i can live alone wthout anyone's company, yet, what we sometimes believe may not be always true. This is my crazy measurement of acceptance, one of the rules i live with no exemption-- IF YOU WANT TO STAY--HANDLE MY WORST; IF YOU CAN'T--DON'T EVEN TRY; IF YOU WON'T--PLS LEAVE.

2ND Q: WHY DO WE HURT THOSE WHO LOVE US?
Bnzer A: "COZ WE DON'T LOVE THEM. Am i applying logic here?-YES, I do. If you love them, why would you hurt them anyway? (now, hold ur eyebrows before they fly, hehe) Most of you must tell me-"part of bein human-we unconsciously hurt them and we don't mean the doing"..I AM NOT SAYING you'll play a perfect role and act clean..if you analyze the Q carefully, i didn't say--"Why do we hurt those WE love"..not every one we love feels the same way we do, and applying the basic logic, not all who loved us we love too..If you have experienced hurting someone you honestly don't love, don't feel guilty. Intentionally or not, you'll be hurting them, considering the fact that they have feelings and can sense what you feel at the same time You can never be nice to every one, no matter how safely you construct your words, you must remember-HEARING IS NOT THE ONLY SENSE A HUMAN BEING HAS. If you love someone, would you find a reason to hurt him?--IF YOUR ANSWER IS "YES", THEN, YOU DON'T LOVE HIM. 'COZ IF YOU TRULY LOVE THAT SPECIAL BEING, YOU WILL NEVER GIVE HIM A SINGLE REASON TO WASTE HIS TEARS.

3rd Q: WHY DO WE TAKE THE CHANCES OF HURTING?
Bnzer A: TO KNOW THE CONSEQUENCE OF OUR ACTIONS. It is not really having no regrets in trying. I'll be telling a lie and make a mistake here if i say I DON'T EVER regret the chance i have taken especially when the result is unfavorable to me. There are really moments i don't like my responses to the call of life. i do regret, 'coz i am fully aware of the exact opposite result of the untaken chance.
A CHANCE IS DIFFERENT FROM A CHOICE--i have heard this line again and again but still it has a great impact on my way of living. Every one may have the same chance but do consider different choices. How will you know you have taken the right choice? Well, you (reader) has the right answer. Whatever your answer is, it will be the right one for you, 'coz it is your choice. This is a cycle. How would you know the right choice is the right answer?--HMMMM..well, TAKE YOUR CHANCE AND TELL ME :)



the above answers of Beanizer are only based on a one-person life. A single creature who has been hurt, has hurt and has taken the chances of hurting.
if beanizer will place himself as GOD or as a parent, then he must say: "I FORGIVE COZ I LOVE YOU".but, BEanizer is neither of them. Beanizer just wanted freedom.

If the blog gives you a conclusion of the character of a Beanizer, better keeP it to yourself..it may either be TRue or FAlse..yet----
BEANIZER WON'T TELL :)